|A Bicycle Built For Two Requires TWO Peddlers|
Are You Coasting or Pedaling?
What are you doing to show the person you love that you care?
Do they know? Or are you all about you?
A relationship should be like a "bicycle built for two" where both people are pedaling the bike, otherwise the person putting forth most of the effort will end up petering out and giving up.
Relationships require effort and thought, but here is the thing - if you truly LOVE someone they should be WORTH the effort and your actions should show the proof of your love which fuels the relationship on. But it takes two...
How are you loving? Do your thoughts naturally go to that person's health, well being and happiness? Or is it more "what's in it for you?" Do you consider how your partner feels? What makes them happy? If you are showing love in a way they receive it? Or has the thought not occurred to you at all? If not, than maybe you don't love that person at all, you just love the way they love you - and that's a dead end...
Food for thought.